Anxiety is not a disease
Anxiety doesn’t mean you are weak
It doesn’t mean you are special
It doesn’t mean you are an emotional person
It doesn’t mean you are soft and delicate
It doesn’t mean you can only be an artist
It doesn’t mean you have restricted ability
It doesn’t mean you need to be protected
It doesn’t mean you are mentally handicapped
It doesn’t mean you can’t handle conflict
It doesn’t mean you are a pushover
It doesn’t mean you are scared
It doesn’t mean it’s a chronic disease which you just need to manage and get by
It doesn’t mean that you had childhood trauma and it’s all your mom and dad’s fault
It’s definitely not your personality
It’s none of the above
All of the above are labels and boxes our mind has created to protect us
You will feel anxious,
But you can still handle conflict
You will feel anxious,
But you can still build a business
Its okay you had experienced some childhood trauma
It’s okay you grew up in a house with single parent
It’s okay there was physical abuse in the house
All of these have happened, in the past
Now it’s the present
You are feeling anxious
Let’s assume they are 2 independent entities
Unrelated
And you are going to feel anxious several days , weeks and months
First let’s start by accepting the discomfort you feel , it’s real, it’s there
But it’s not a disease
It’s a signal
It’s a signal of spiritual growth
It’s a signal that you are facing your fears
It’s a signal that you are learning acceptance
It’s a signal you are making changes in your life
It’s a signal of self realization
If you are feeling anxious
it’s not a punishment
It’s freedom
Freedom from your old self
It’s metamorphosis
That you asked for in silence
Love,
Sankalpa
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